Mourning Sandy Hook and a Novena for Healing


Each one lovely, unique, and irreproducible; wildflowers and people alike. Today the unthinkable happened, and as I sat only half-listening to the news as I worked, I couldn’t imagine the connection between a shooting somewhere in Connecticut and Sandy Hook across the bay from me in New Jersey. Then the sickening reality hit me that the news was discussing my Godson’s school in Sandy Hook, Connecticut. Blessedly, he’s beyond the fourth grade and in a different school.

When I called their home, Rachelle’s very first words were, “The children are alright.”

But they won’t be, really. Anyone in Sandy Hook and Newtown. Terror is yielding to exhaustion and numbness tonight. Today was just the first of several convulsions that will roil that community for the next two weeks as the tiny bodies are waked and buried; as the teachers who no doubt did all they could are also laid to rest; as the gunman too is consigned to the earth.

Then will come the hard work of healing the gaping wounds in minds, hearts, and souls who have suffered the greatest of all social betrayals: the targeting of children, most of whom were still babies in kindergarten. Unspeakable evil.

Beginning tomorrow night, (Saturday) the Coming Home family will gather at 8 PM for nine nights to lift up our extended family in Sandy Hook and Newtown in a Novena to Our Lady of Lourdes for Healing.

No words can ever console or assuage the grief that is beyond description. However, our prayers will lift the community up and aid in giving them strength in this, their greatest hour of trial. When you visit each night, please leave your well-wishes in the comments box, I assure you, the folks there will see them.

For now, tonight while the bodies still lie in the school, we keep vigil with all of Sandy Hook and Newtown.

Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let Perpetual Light shine upon them.

May they rest in peace. Amen.

[Editor’s note: tune in to Dr. Nadal’s blog starting tomorrow (Saturday) night for the Novena prayers.]


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  • And may God have mercy on us all.

  • “We must not be surprised when we hear of
    murders, of killings, of wars, of hatred. If a mother can kill her own
    child, what is left but for us to kill each other.” – Mother Teresa of

  • goral

    We, as a nation are so good at lighting candles but not much else.
    I too, lit twenty candles in church yesterday. What else could I do?
    St. Joseph’s is less than an hour away from the scene of the
    “Massacre of the Innocents”, as the nearby Waterbury paper flashed in its headline.
    CT is a sinful state in so many ways. There’s always a strong show of police force at abortion clinics protests. They must be kept safe. If you’re an artist who peddles perversity, blue, catholic Connecticut. Welcomes You.
    We have tears for the little bodies, still lying at the scene of the crime, but they are
    of the dry variety. This was so skillfully displayed on TV by the commander of dry tears.